Greetings and Salutations!
The title is taken from the Brit POV of course.
It’s been a good day.
Concerned American from WRSA was in town for biddness, so he came to the Casa (which was cool AF) and I got to show off the ‘Museum of Mayhem’… he was of course loving it.
Sapper, myself and CA then went out to IHOP where I actually managed to choke down about 3/4 of a Ham and Cheese omelet.
ONE aspect of this sort of trauma is that in the FIRST die-vorce I lost 27 pounds. This one I figure it’s going to be MORE. I have zero appetite, and per y’all as well as everyone else’s advice, I’m not boozing.
I mean a couple or 4 of some Miller Lite but hey
It is the 4th amiright?
https://coldfury.com/WRSA/WRSA-WP
It won’t embed… sorry about that…
A truly classic Trek Scene…
So yeah…
ALL my other poasts:
Per my lawyer(s) I closed out and archived everything.
At some point they’ll be back up… however, for now?
Never hand the enemy ammunition.
So I hope ALL of you degenerate and deplorable folks have a GREAT 4th. Sapper and I are doing Burgers, Beer and Brats, and then a movie… probably with Jason Statham as I like watching him kick the shit out of people. The “Beekeeper” movie was one of his best, and supposedly “The Working Man” is rtight up there, so it’ll be good.
Otherwise, Head on a Swivel, Watch Your Six
More Later
BCE
Happy beginning of independence to ya.
I *loved* The Beekeeper. For reasons.
Glad you have some company.
Will contact you later on the proton widget.
Get some good rest.
You are in my prayers, Brother.
Men only want one thing?
It’s really good that CA showed up. Probably a blessing. Keep your cool and know that there are people that care about you. Have the best 4th of July you possibly can.
PS: Why would anyone want to fuck with you? I’m talking about the Micah. Either stupid or devious, maybe both. Don’t seek it out, you’ll be disappointed. God Bless!
Step back look at the big picture and you will see why Micah out of the blue started fucking with him…
@Lineman: Exactly.
BCE, glad you got to visit with Pete. He’s a cool cat.
Yeah, seemed like bait.
I have another guess too, but I don’t wanna type it since I know she’s reading this. Later…
It’s easier to guess these things correctly as a third party than the one in the crucible.
Yea very possible Brother…
Definitely a plausible explanation
That’s the spirit! Keep humpin’, stay off the truck! All the best, Big!
Dude, don’t know you personally but love your adventures. I truly wish you the best and am praying for you.
BC, just to clarify, you state all other posts are archived and hidden (or at least that’s how I read it), but I can still scroll down and see them (and all the comments). Not sure if the site is still presenting an archived version, or if your purge for reasons of OPSEC didn’t take, but check that out and rectify it with the quickness.
So sorry to hear about the blow-up. As per your comments a few days ago, I wondered if something was brewing. Was going to throw a few bucks into the pot for the Ishapoor and am glad I put off doing it.
You’re in my prayers until things settle down.
Coelacanth
I’ve never met you, and only get a sense of you through your blog. That said, I’ve never seen you write a harsh or nasty word about your soon-to-be ex-spouse. I can and do question your judgment, given the endless drama and financial demands she and her family have placed upon you, but I cannot and do not question your apparent good will and willingness to help family and friends, even to your own detriment. Not to mention, I like many of your ‘recibes.’ So – let me add my ‘best wishes’ for your future happiness.
As for the 4th – I’m going to agree with Jared Taylor’s post today, although I disagree with him on many other things. Almost nothing I can see to ‘celebrate’ in today’s pseudo ‘merkan economic zone, filled with dysfunctional and hostile aliens. May all our people’s futures be better.
Betrayal is HARD. You are such a generous man, that it is painful to see you go this.
I will say that you have been put through the wringer with your wife’s issues, and appear to have had everyone’s best interests at heart. You are a good man, and will come out of this mess happier than you went in.
Good luck!
Stay sober, BCE, and don’t lose your cool to jerks like Micah. For all we know he could be an agent provocateur with connections to your ex’s lawyer who’s trying to goad you into doing something that LEO can pounce on–thereby making a much stronger case against you in the divorce.
my uncle Jack had a lot of good things to say about flamethrowers. then again, he was a big fan of rolling a 55 gallon barrel of gas into caves too. yup. uncle jack was a Marine in WW2.
served with “Chesty” from the “canel” to Pelieu. after that he was sent stateside to train the guys who ended up going into Iwo. wasn’t too much of a fan of cook outs though that I remember.
it always said that Pelieu was the worst. and he found out later it was all for nothing kind of pissed him off a lot. he had a lot of pictures of him and Chesty in his walls. a few from the bad old days and a lot more from the reunions after the war.
glad to hear you are doin better. keep the anger in check. it will only hurt you in the end.
so, make some plans on where you might want to go. forget leaving the states, if things go south that is the last place you want to be. think rural, small farm. say within 50 -100 miles of a VA center
not too close to larger town. not a big city ! GET A NEW PHONE. and start looking around as to where
you want to land. older 4by4 crew cab or something like it. check out “city data ” site for background
intel to narrow things down a bit. then go there 3 or more times to really check things out.
steer clear of any place with “yuppies” or city folk as they call then around here.
I like the hills of PA as the winters keep the clowns out. yes, it gets cold up here. some winters it dropped down to 6 and stayed there for a week or more. funny thing, Pendot does a better job here on the roads than anyplace I ever been before. really they do. unreal but 4-8 hours after the snow stops, the roads are clear and safe to drive on.
anyway. stay safe. and check six like always
Sounds like you’re in a better place, or on the road to there – great to hear!
Re the little vid … Yeah. Pretty much…
Really sorry to hear all this, Tiny. And I think you and the men here are right on track in addressing legalities and tactics.
When I finally put all the fambily drama behind me once and for all…I pretty much stopped drinking and didn’t miss it one bit. I would have sworn I was an alcoholic but… maybe the booze was a coping mechanism of some sort? I am at a complete loss in explaining it.
What’s your relationship with Matt Bracken? He’s in Florida isn’t he? He wrote a blurb years back, advising young men to get a boat and learn how to sail and live aboard. If things here go for a shit – he just sets a course, hoists a sail – and he’s outta here without so much as a “kiss my ass”… have you a plan for when the smoke clears? Bracken might have a few pointers if that’s an option for you.
Filthie: MB’s advice might be a practical plan B, even for the codger MGTOWs, at least those w/ AOs near a coast or tributary of the oceans.
I love sailing.
Yeah, it also might be a good disaster option.
But until then there’s a problem.
So, I used to be in the Coast Guard, and I hate that they have the authority to board vessels without probable cause or reasonable suspicion. I can’t imagine LEO’s having the authority to come into my home without either.
“Safety check.” Makes my stomach turn.
No longer your Circus, OR your monkeys. Breath deep, relax and have a little Fun today!
You’re no longer tied to a major league shit show. DC is no longer YOUR problem. If the Diva manages to find herself blind, well, that’s the down side of not following orders. Take care of your self, since no one is willing to step up. FAFO, good to be on the right side of that.
Women: Men only want one thing and it’s disgusting.
Men: Well, wash that motherfucker then.
I still get a solid chuckle every time I see that meme. And too many “ladies” are neglectful of proper personal care in that regard. I’ve encountered gag-worthy situations more than a few times; the kind of shit that will permanently destroy a man’s faith in humanity.
Oh boy, umm.. So in defense of women… ummm…. Ok go medical Pickler…
The day (or so) after you’ve ejaculated into her, it goes bad. Not her fault at all. It’s his semen that’s gone past its expiration date. And there’s nooooooooooooo complaining to a woman who wanted her man to do that.
Not that bad hygiene doesn’t exist…
‘Nuff said.
“British treason day” good one Tiny!
Well, there is that scenario. But I wasn’t even talking about that. I’ve seen neglect of basic hygienic care by women that caused certain things to just get plain nasty. I’m not going to go into detail, there’s no need for that here. I figure most guys, by a certain age, have encountered this sort of stuff. Ah, but sugar and spice and everything nice, right?
Sure, guys can be neglectful of proper personal cleanliness too. But there is the inherent bias that women are perceived as the cleaner, neater sex (until you have that illusion busted by a close personal encounter with their shortcomings, often just the result of laziness).
Unrelated, but BCE should probably mosy on over to youtube and reacquaint himself with the hot:crazy matrix. Pay particular attention to the section regarding strippers, redheads, hairdressers and girls named Tiffany.
Thanks for not saying it.
This coming from a long time RN.
By the way, if you ever meet an RN who specializes in open hearts, ask them why?
100% of the time we will ALWAYS say it’s because they’re not allowed to poop.
The anesthesia for open-heart surgery is pretty intense, and shuts down the whole G.I. tract for long enough to get them out of the ICU before that.
And, there was one patient we shipped off to the OR for surgery, they pooped in the OR upon induction, then the OR cancelled the surgery, and sent them back.. Too high a chance of a surgical infection.
And to answer your question, no, I have no idea why it became a nurse, ha ha. I’m definitely not nurturing, and a dude. But, I’ve been really good at noticing when a patient’s gonna start circling the drain, and had to quickly plug that drain so they survive, at least for the shift.
I wanted to become a physical therapist, but the college was way too long for what the pay offered.
He’s right, I had a bad Tiffany experience once LOL (blonde though)
I love that!!
I have never seen that meme!
But Jsut reading the text: outstanding.
Happy 4th of July BCE !
You’ll get through this and when it’s over be much happier !
Everyone understands that you can’t discuss anything about your now Ex and the divorce but throw a post like this up every once in awhile so we all know that you are OK.
If you need anything, just let everyone know.
Happy Independence Day! You sound a little better…purposeful, stay that way. When I was in the disaster business for the Army, one of the very learned NCOs used to say “what comes after a hurricane?…blue skies”. Hang in there.
Out here in Sin City things were a-boomin’, and not just the usual sponsored fireworks shows around town. Most all the neighborhoods had folks that went up to the Moapa tribe’s fireworks store and bought plenty of boom-boom stuff to set off, despite police efforts to intercept them. Interesting fact, they can sell them on the reservation and they have a fenced-off 3 acre plot that people can set them off in, but off the reservation only ‘safe and sane’ (i.e. fireworks that don’t shoot into the air) are allowed in the county.
So despite the downtick in tourism and gaming revenue here, plenty of folks still have a bit of extra cash to blow on blowing stuff up. Unsure if they really have their priorities straight or they’re (likely) using some of their ‘benefits’ to get cash to burn.
Really sorry to hear about recent events, hopeful that things will go better shortly with yourself, and this post indicates it just might. Stay safe…
If hostiles are circling might want to make sure waybackmachine angle is covered. To make sure 360 defense.
If not delete this and secure.
Best of luck
HEY BIG COUNTRY–
If you see this, would you mind deleting my post from above, with the Zman info?
I jumped the gun a bit with publicizing his funeral information. The family might like to keep it smaller and on the private side.
My apologies. I thought it would be OK, but I have not heard back from my contact.
Even though this “corner of the internet” is pretty small and trusted, I’d appreciate it.
Also, I’m so sorry for what’s happening with your life situation. Just knwo that there are good people out here who are praying for you, pulling for you, and supporting you (even IRL).
The gentlemen above have given such great words of support, I can’t top it. But please –most importantly– take care of yourself. I’m glad Sapper is there for you, as well.
Something to think about: timing isn’t everything but frequently it’s a lot.
This dramatic explosion of dramatis personae happened right before the three-day holiday weekend.
A long weekend before offices are back open again to process normal and customary business requests.
Such timing implies all of the following: planning, experience, knowledge, history.
Mention this to your new legal counsel when he’s back at the office, as he will undoubtedly have the same in terms of how to deal with this.
Especially put emphasis on history as you would be the bigger fool for believing you were the only one.
Anything further gives OPFOR advantages they currently do not have, and that feeling of uncertain reckoning they may begin to feel works for you not them.
In the meantime let the professionals do their jobs.
harden up bruh
i really hope you have finally gotten this notion of luv out of your system this time around.. americunt whammen are a No Go – they are not human and have no souls. don’t talk to them. don’t help them. i wouldn’t give them a glass of water if they were dying of thirst.
you’ll learn…
You probably know this but it helps to hear it again.
Don’t be alone. Film everything if you are alone.
Don’t accept reconciliation invites alone.
Paranoia can be your friend at times like this.
Sorry to hear you’re going through this.
Do not accept reconciliation invites AT ALL.
This is a hard pill to swallow but if she did it once it will happen again.
You saved her life and she fucks you over like this.
Move on brother with the time you have left in this world. It’s a damn hard pill but one I have had to deal with myself and it takes time to digest. Spend it in the company of good friends and discard anything to do with the woman, leave no stone unturned of anything that will trigger a “good” memory.
Burn it, it was all an illusion.
It’s a long road. Sorry you are being shafted. Stay sober as you can. But eat as needed. You can get through it.
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