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Check Please….
O. M. F. G. When it rains… It pours… DC is pregnant……………………
“Floridaman Goes Bananas, Thousands Dead, Film at 11!”
I am so over this shit… More Later BCE
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Black baby daddy?
Thank Fuck NO!
That’s like the ONLY thing she won’t fuck…
In this case it’s a sub-80 whytte Trailer Park Boy.
Holy Shit On a Saltine, I thought that somebody would have had her fixed by now. I know its a long shot on who the father is but do you have an inkling of who the mother is going to be? Inquiring minds want to know.
Spin
BCE, Can’t you get a frigging break ?
I suspect though this is one of the reasons Wifey was up at your In Laws AO where DC lives ?
The responsibility for your Gran now #3 is NOT you, Wifey or Wifey’s Ex ie DC’s Dad, it is DC and the Baby Daddy who you know MADE the kid and are its PARENTS.
You guys have already spent fortunes and oodles of time on lawyers and BS on DC’s other 2 kids and now she’s bringing #3 ?
You and Wifey have health problems and you need all of this drama like you need a hole in the head.
Do you guys know who the Babby Daddy is or was it a one night stand and CYA ?
Damn man, I’m sorry and I don’t know what else to say.
Jimmy is right.
BCE…
Very much so… not on you. this is 100% her (DC) you somehow need to get that across to your struggling lovely wife.
I have a road trip planned for this spring. I could add a couple thousand miles to it and we could get snot slinging drunk. Soldier/Sailor, howl at the moon! Get thrown out of a bar!
This is not your problem.
Jesus H. Christ on a Vespa, BC. That bish needs a cork shoved in her cooch. Or some other disincentive against continuing fuckups (which I won’t deign to expand on here, use your imagination). All I can really say is that you need to brace yourself to stand your ground and not allow the drama and bullshit that will undoubtedly arise out of this latest crisis to in any way affect you or drag you in.
Do a Pontius Pilate, and preemptively wash your hands of it right damn now. You can’t – and shouldn’t have to – deal with the fallout of this fuckery. And if (when) the inlaws expire, you just know you will be next in line to hear the sob story.
amen to that. my kid. dumb fuck that he is. hooked up with some girl he “knew” back in high school.
the bitch has 3 kids from 3 different dads. no shit. for real.
anyway, with her. he lost his good paying job. his house and company truck.
and he still “loves” her ?
I wash my hands of that mess over 8 years ago. moved and he does NOT have my new phone number or knows just where I am. I am retired, not a walking ATM for his dumb shit.
he is a rolling train wreck. NOTHING I have done for him has changed that a bit. nothing.
I gotten tired of helping him out. the sad part is his kid. my grandson is turning out just like him.
sometimes you just need to cut any and all ties and let them deal with the world themselves.
or they bring you down as well. there is no cure for stupid. God knows I tried with him.
no matter what I did , he fucked it up one way or another. if it wasn’t for your in laws, I say move and tell no one where you at. sad to say, but you will be better off in the long run.
Sad news. Sad for you and Gretchen, and sad for the innocent child that will be born to a worthless mother.
Oh brother…
This is incredibly sad
She won’t take care of it and most boys that age have the parenting instincts of a hungry male leopard.
This one shouldn’t be on your shoulders. She’s going to pull every heartstring she can get to on your wife and her folks.
Pity the state cannot take the child away for its own good – they seem to like to do that.
I’ll keep praying for you – you and yours are in my drive time rosaries pretty much every day
Although they went a little overboard at times, I’m guessing this is the type the old eugenicists had in mind for their program to forcibly sterilize those beyond the literally retarded–and after hearing so many DC stories I’m getting quite a bit more sympathy for the idea.
How long before this one gets taken. Has anyone tipped off the state cops that she is back in state? Didn’t she have an arrest warrant?
I am concerned for you and your health, BCE, if Gretchen continues to enable her daughter, rather than cutting off all contact Cold Turkey.
If she continues to enable her daughter, it will have a knock-on effect on you.
And to think, I had to buy a saltwater fishing license yesterday just to catch a fish. We should talk about pregnancy licenses…
Get a bank account that only you can access. Lock up your valuables so that only you can get them. She’s coming to your house and will steal you blind. I would jettison the whole crew but that’s just me. Trouble follows them and infects everything they touch. Bad juju.
At the very least setup a secret bank account now, throw some emergency funds in it, and get high value guns (that you aren’t actively using or expect to need immediate access to) and other collectible items that may be valuable to someone looking for shit to fence, either into a safe that only you know the combo to, or better still into secure off-site storage (maybe the home of a trusted close friend).
Do it now before any shit comes down on you, because it’ll be too late to do any of that after she shows up. There is also the angle that she shows up, stirs the pot by causing a domestic dispute scenario, police get involved and next thing you know your stuff gets confiscated by the pigs with a court order in hand. Fuck all that noise, setup contingencies now to protect your funds and your “toy collection” from getting tied up in legal BS. If they can’t find it, they can’t take it.
I really hope you and the wife have a rock solid understanding (I know you spoke of this before, a while back now) that DC is cut off and she is not to burden you again with any of the problems or drama DC brings with her like a shadow. But motherly instinct and attachment is a hell of a thing, and if Gretchen can’t let it go and tries to put you in the shit again, you need to have a plan of action on what to do, or you will likely end up in the worst possible situation (jailed for any of a number of possible charges; or worse, if the cops show up in the heat of an altercation).
I hate to even have to say this sort of stuff, but the previous history of how DC has conducted herself (which isn’t going to change) and the fact you are apparently just a magnet for misfortune and difficulty in life, causes me to suggest you really need to have a solid strategy in place, and with great urgency now, based upon this latest news.
Will echo what @Carrie said earlier, the stress from this stuff will have a deleterious effects on your health, and you don’t need that in the least (nor does Gretchen) but soul suckers like DC don’t care about that, they just show up and take and disrupt and ruin until there’s not a fucking thing left but a blast zone inside of which are ruined lives and fortunes wasted.
I’ve seen friends, associates, and coworkers all get done in by the dysfunctional adult spawn of their wives at various times in the last two decades, and it frustrates the hell out of me because these situations can be seen from a mile away and planned for, and yet they have seldom taken my advice to inure themselves against these onslaughts of shite before the succubi showed up and caused great pain and destruction, that in many cases was never recovered from.
Brother like I’ve said here and elsewhere most people just won’t do anything until it’s forced upon them…They are reactive instead of proactive and that is why we see so many with fucked up lives…
Have been considering a similar cache myself for similar reasons.
It might be prudent and OPSEC
BC, I left a lengthy reply here earlier that must’ve gone to moderation or spam. Hopefully you see it and can set it free.
100%. Gretchen opened the door and let DC back in. After some trials and tests, she will find our beloved BCE insufficiently loyal to the cause, and will break his heart and wallet. Pray im wrong, and hope i am, because BCE deserves better.
Holy Shit.
I’d say you have to wash your hands of that shit, but I’m not sure you can. It’s like washing your hands of a tornado. Yeah, you had nothing to do with it, but it’ll still wipe out your hooch.
What’s the over/under on number of months after the kid is born that she wants custody of the others?
Got no words.
Sad thing is, those kids are innocent, especially the baby. It doesn’t deserve what’s about to happen to it.
Thinking on this situation I’ll give my 2 cents for what it’s worth, the real problem is Wifey NOT DC.
DC is a hopeless POS who laughed when she had her own mother arrested.
She has no problem letting others raise her kids and is homeless with no job, knows she is incapable of caring for a kid yet is irresponsible and gets knocked up not once, not twice but now 3 times !!
DC broke up her parent’s marriage and she’s working hard to break up yours.
Wifey HAS to stop enabling DC and say “not my circus… not my monkeys” and put her at an arms length.
Like I’ve said before, I have 3 adoptive kids and one I have nothing to do with, one is married and a nurse and doing great and one is like DC. One for my own protection I had to cut ties with (he’s a drug user, sells his ass literally for drugs and has been in and out of jail), the other I talk to but she’s 1200 miles away and I will NOT give her a dime and she knows it nor am I raising any little bastards (I’m sorry about that word but it IS true).
I’m sorry BCE, but you have put up with WAAAY more than most men with DC and her BS and I know you’ve told Wifey to stop enabling DC but for both of your well being, DC needs to stand on her own and it’s NOT you or Wifey’s issue.
Hey, BCE, there’s a book “Codependent No More” get two copies, memorize them. It is from the 80’s. I had a BFF who would call me when his life was going to crap. Been called and yelled at from jail twice and still helped him out until someone put me onto this book. That was 40 years ago. I still keep tabs on him, he’s doing 84 months for felony assault with a hand gun. That’s his 60’s, his 50’s were in a mental institution. Good luck.
Spin
P.S. My other BFF dropped dead from the shot 11/23/23. He was a good guy, Expat South African. That loss hurt.
What Spin said.
There is also a 12-step program and fellowship for folks who are trapped in a toxic relationship or codependent “dance” with a self-destructive exploitive or abusive family member or friend. Codependents Anonymous uses the same steps, traditions, and principles as Alanon, for those who are struggling to deal with a family member who is alcoholic, or Naranon, for those dealing with a family member or friend who is addicted to drugs.
One of the hard lessons that had to be jack-hammered into my frontal lobe while in the CODA rooms was that I myself was half the problem, especially as regards enabling, boundary setting, letting go of what you cannot control, humbling yourself before God as you understand Him, and asking Him for the wisdom to know the difference between what you can and cannot control and the courage to change the things you can, and should, change. My 2 bits.
I feel your pain Tiny. I used to be a walking shit magnet too. The only thing that put an end to it was grabbing a shovel, start diggin’… and I slowly got the shit out of my life and proximity. Once it was gone, I made sure it STAYED “gone”.
There are no shortcuts.
Man, you can’t catch a break.
a man reaches a certain point in his life where he says “just fuck all these useless people who add no value to my life” and turns away…
i reached that point about 10 years ago and haven’t regretted it yet. so and so is having a baby? getting married?, needs bail? good luck..
i will give free advice to anyone who asks though- so they have that to look forward to anyway
i have $, time, and my sanity. can’t have those when NPCs are using up your resources
^ Man, this hits home. I’ve totally cut off a few long time friends for repeatedly trying to abuse my generally good nature, and trying to take advantage of the fact I have my shit together (and they don’t). No family that has been told to fuck right off yet, though there’s at least one who could potentially be cast off in the future, based on some recent tension arising from them being difficult for no real reason.
Really, as time wears on I find I’ve less use and less tolerance for dealing with others. All the bullshit the world heaps on me (and my burden is light compared to the problems BCE is suffering) has worn me down and made me even more antisocial than I already was.
tfA-t, you are so right. I had a really good friend and coworker D who was the funniest, nicest guy and best friend anyone could have.
His only vice was that he had to always “help his boys”. His boys were in their early 30s when I met them and were both working and married. I saw on Facebook that the boys always had money to party on the weekends but when bills came due Dad had to pay their bills.
I worked with and was friends with D for 15 years and nothing changed. I begged and pleaded with him to make his boys stand on their own but he just wouldn’t. He’d go without but his boys both had nice trucks, a speed boat and a camper yet guess who was paying their bills ?
Finally 6 months ago, D who said he couldn’t retire at 67 because his “family needed him working” collapsed at work with a MASSIVE stroke. He lingered at the hospital for a week before he died.
At the hospital his boys were all upset and only partly because their father was dying. The youngest was saying “what am I gonna do… what am I gonna do” ? D died and it broke my heart because he was a good guy who let his kids take advantage of him and put him in an early grave. I heard through the grapevine that the boys are bumming their widowed Mom Dave’s wife for some of the life insurance money.
You HAVE to cut deadbeat kids off or their is NEVER an end to it.
Sorry to hear about your troubles. Regarding the wife, I will recommend that before you let the medical medieval scam called oncology stick poisons into your wife, please check out the Joe Tippens cancer protocol. There are many links to it, here’s one:
Then scroll down to the following section of the post. This updated protocol includes ivermectin in combo with fenbendazole which improves the cancer killing impact.
New & Improved Joe Tippens Protocol – Dr William Makis
Please for the love of God move your shit while she’s away at the in-laws, and get a bank account at another bank. Or you’re gonna find yourself in a world of hurt. Do this BEFORE the confrontation. She’s enabling DC, and you need to protect yourself. This will cause your health to tank, just from the stress. You don’t want to be swatted at 0400 bc DC thought it would be fun.
In enabling this, she’s putting DC before your marriage.
Dang it man,
Sorry to hear this is happening to you. My 2 cents which is worth just that much is to,
1. Give the ultimatum to G, either cut ties with DC exactly right F’n now and stick to it or the relationship is OVER between you two. No way anyone that truely loves you would put you through what has already gone on much less what is most assuredly about to transpire.
2. Sell your stuff to Sapper for exactly 1 dollar with agreement that once the divorce ( which is coming whether you care to admit it or not) is final he sells back to you for same dollar.
There is no reason at all to stay in a toxic relationship and if G is going to have DC in her life, and by default in your life, it is time to leave.
JT
This seems like excellent advice, even if it’s pessimistic. A proper firewall against the worst case scenario. And if all works out, there’s nothing lost.
Life’s choices matter. For everyone. Such as who one takes up with.
Genetics matter. A LOT.
Agree with others here that it isnt your problem. Stop letting it be. If G wants to rejoin the circus, walk. Your ‘lub’ is no different to the trailer park variety if you choose Chaos in your life.
Get her some fent.. Seens to be all the rage with trash.
Get her some fent.. Seens to be all the rage with trash.
DB, that is
I am starting to think involuntary sterilization needs to make a comeback for Whites like DC and certain entire racial groups.
Black baby daddy?
Thank Fuck NO!
That’s like the ONLY thing she won’t fuck…
In this case it’s a sub-80 whytte Trailer Park Boy.
Holy Shit On a Saltine, I thought that somebody would have had her fixed by now. I know its a long shot on who the father is but do you have an inkling of who the mother is going to be? Inquiring minds want to know.
Spin
BCE, Can’t you get a frigging break ?
I suspect though this is one of the reasons Wifey was up at your In Laws AO where DC lives ?
The responsibility for your Gran now #3 is NOT you, Wifey or Wifey’s Ex ie DC’s Dad, it is DC and the Baby Daddy who you know MADE the kid and are its PARENTS.
You guys have already spent fortunes and oodles of time on lawyers and BS on DC’s other 2 kids and now she’s bringing #3 ?
You and Wifey have health problems and you need all of this drama like you need a hole in the head.
Do you guys know who the Babby Daddy is or was it a one night stand and CYA ?
Damn man, I’m sorry and I don’t know what else to say.
Jimmy is right.
BCE…
Very much so… not on you. this is 100% her (DC) you somehow need to get that across to your struggling lovely wife.
I have a road trip planned for this spring. I could add a couple thousand miles to it and we could get snot slinging drunk. Soldier/Sailor, howl at the moon! Get thrown out of a bar!
This is not your problem.
DITTO.
MEGADITTO.
Hang in there, bro… it’s darkest before the dawn.
Conservatives in Germany just got kicked where it hurts too:
https://www.thetruthaboutguns.com/gun-confiscation-afd-supporters-germany/
Jesus H. Christ on a Vespa, BC. That bish needs a cork shoved in her cooch. Or some other disincentive against continuing fuckups (which I won’t deign to expand on here, use your imagination). All I can really say is that you need to brace yourself to stand your ground and not allow the drama and bullshit that will undoubtedly arise out of this latest crisis to in any way affect you or drag you in.
Do a Pontius Pilate, and preemptively wash your hands of it right damn now. You can’t – and shouldn’t have to – deal with the fallout of this fuckery. And if (when) the inlaws expire, you just know you will be next in line to hear the sob story.
amen to that. my kid. dumb fuck that he is. hooked up with some girl he “knew” back in high school.
the bitch has 3 kids from 3 different dads. no shit. for real.
anyway, with her. he lost his good paying job. his house and company truck.
and he still “loves” her ?
I wash my hands of that mess over 8 years ago. moved and he does NOT have my new phone number or knows just where I am. I am retired, not a walking ATM for his dumb shit.
he is a rolling train wreck. NOTHING I have done for him has changed that a bit. nothing.
I gotten tired of helping him out. the sad part is his kid. my grandson is turning out just like him.
sometimes you just need to cut any and all ties and let them deal with the world themselves.
or they bring you down as well. there is no cure for stupid. God knows I tried with him.
no matter what I did , he fucked it up one way or another. if it wasn’t for your in laws, I say move and tell no one where you at. sad to say, but you will be better off in the long run.
Sad news. Sad for you and Gretchen, and sad for the innocent child that will be born to a worthless mother.
Oh brother…
This is incredibly sad
She won’t take care of it and most boys that age have the parenting instincts of a hungry male leopard.
This one shouldn’t be on your shoulders. She’s going to pull every heartstring she can get to on your wife and her folks.
Pity the state cannot take the child away for its own good – they seem to like to do that.
I’ll keep praying for you – you and yours are in my drive time rosaries pretty much every day
Although they went a little overboard at times, I’m guessing this is the type the old eugenicists had in mind for their program to forcibly sterilize those beyond the literally retarded–and after hearing so many DC stories I’m getting quite a bit more sympathy for the idea.
How long before this one gets taken. Has anyone tipped off the state cops that she is back in state? Didn’t she have an arrest warrant?
I am concerned for you and your health, BCE, if Gretchen continues to enable her daughter, rather than cutting off all contact Cold Turkey.
If she continues to enable her daughter, it will have a knock-on effect on you.
And to think, I had to buy a saltwater fishing license yesterday just to catch a fish. We should talk about pregnancy licenses…
Get a bank account that only you can access. Lock up your valuables so that only you can get them. She’s coming to your house and will steal you blind. I would jettison the whole crew but that’s just me. Trouble follows them and infects everything they touch. Bad juju.
At the very least setup a secret bank account now, throw some emergency funds in it, and get high value guns (that you aren’t actively using or expect to need immediate access to) and other collectible items that may be valuable to someone looking for shit to fence, either into a safe that only you know the combo to, or better still into secure off-site storage (maybe the home of a trusted close friend).
Do it now before any shit comes down on you, because it’ll be too late to do any of that after she shows up. There is also the angle that she shows up, stirs the pot by causing a domestic dispute scenario, police get involved and next thing you know your stuff gets confiscated by the pigs with a court order in hand. Fuck all that noise, setup contingencies now to protect your funds and your “toy collection” from getting tied up in legal BS. If they can’t find it, they can’t take it.
I really hope you and the wife have a rock solid understanding (I know you spoke of this before, a while back now) that DC is cut off and she is not to burden you again with any of the problems or drama DC brings with her like a shadow. But motherly instinct and attachment is a hell of a thing, and if Gretchen can’t let it go and tries to put you in the shit again, you need to have a plan of action on what to do, or you will likely end up in the worst possible situation (jailed for any of a number of possible charges; or worse, if the cops show up in the heat of an altercation).
I hate to even have to say this sort of stuff, but the previous history of how DC has conducted herself (which isn’t going to change) and the fact you are apparently just a magnet for misfortune and difficulty in life, causes me to suggest you really need to have a solid strategy in place, and with great urgency now, based upon this latest news.
Will echo what @Carrie said earlier, the stress from this stuff will have a deleterious effects on your health, and you don’t need that in the least (nor does Gretchen) but soul suckers like DC don’t care about that, they just show up and take and disrupt and ruin until there’s not a fucking thing left but a blast zone inside of which are ruined lives and fortunes wasted.
I’ve seen friends, associates, and coworkers all get done in by the dysfunctional adult spawn of their wives at various times in the last two decades, and it frustrates the hell out of me because these situations can be seen from a mile away and planned for, and yet they have seldom taken my advice to inure themselves against these onslaughts of shite before the succubi showed up and caused great pain and destruction, that in many cases was never recovered from.
Brother like I’ve said here and elsewhere most people just won’t do anything until it’s forced upon them…They are reactive instead of proactive and that is why we see so many with fucked up lives…
Have been considering a similar cache myself for similar reasons.
It might be prudent and OPSEC
BC, I left a lengthy reply here earlier that must’ve gone to moderation or spam. Hopefully you see it and can set it free.
100%. Gretchen opened the door and let DC back in. After some trials and tests, she will find our beloved BCE insufficiently loyal to the cause, and will break his heart and wallet. Pray im wrong, and hope i am, because BCE deserves better.
Holy Shit.
I’d say you have to wash your hands of that shit, but I’m not sure you can. It’s like washing your hands of a tornado. Yeah, you had nothing to do with it, but it’ll still wipe out your hooch.
What’s the over/under on number of months after the kid is born that she wants custody of the others?
Got no words.
Sad thing is, those kids are innocent, especially the baby. It doesn’t deserve what’s about to happen to it.
Thinking on this situation I’ll give my 2 cents for what it’s worth, the real problem is Wifey NOT DC.
DC is a hopeless POS who laughed when she had her own mother arrested.
She has no problem letting others raise her kids and is homeless with no job, knows she is incapable of caring for a kid yet is irresponsible and gets knocked up not once, not twice but now 3 times !!
DC broke up her parent’s marriage and she’s working hard to break up yours.
Wifey HAS to stop enabling DC and say “not my circus… not my monkeys” and put her at an arms length.
Like I’ve said before, I have 3 adoptive kids and one I have nothing to do with, one is married and a nurse and doing great and one is like DC. One for my own protection I had to cut ties with (he’s a drug user, sells his ass literally for drugs and has been in and out of jail), the other I talk to but she’s 1200 miles away and I will NOT give her a dime and she knows it nor am I raising any little bastards (I’m sorry about that word but it IS true).
I’m sorry BCE, but you have put up with WAAAY more than most men with DC and her BS and I know you’ve told Wifey to stop enabling DC but for both of your well being, DC needs to stand on her own and it’s NOT you or Wifey’s issue.
Hey, BCE, there’s a book “Codependent No More” get two copies, memorize them. It is from the 80’s. I had a BFF who would call me when his life was going to crap. Been called and yelled at from jail twice and still helped him out until someone put me onto this book. That was 40 years ago. I still keep tabs on him, he’s doing 84 months for felony assault with a hand gun. That’s his 60’s, his 50’s were in a mental institution. Good luck.
Spin
P.S. My other BFF dropped dead from the shot 11/23/23. He was a good guy, Expat South African. That loss hurt.
What Spin said.
There is also a 12-step program and fellowship for folks who are trapped in a toxic relationship or codependent “dance” with a self-destructive exploitive or abusive family member or friend. Codependents Anonymous uses the same steps, traditions, and principles as Alanon, for those who are struggling to deal with a family member who is alcoholic, or Naranon, for those dealing with a family member or friend who is addicted to drugs.
One of the hard lessons that had to be jack-hammered into my frontal lobe while in the CODA rooms was that I myself was half the problem, especially as regards enabling, boundary setting, letting go of what you cannot control, humbling yourself before God as you understand Him, and asking Him for the wisdom to know the difference between what you can and cannot control and the courage to change the things you can, and should, change. My 2 bits.
I feel your pain Tiny. I used to be a walking shit magnet too. The only thing that put an end to it was grabbing a shovel, start diggin’… and I slowly got the shit out of my life and proximity. Once it was gone, I made sure it STAYED “gone”.
There are no shortcuts.
Man, you can’t catch a break.
a man reaches a certain point in his life where he says “just fuck all these useless people who add no value to my life” and turns away…
i reached that point about 10 years ago and haven’t regretted it yet. so and so is having a baby? getting married?, needs bail? good luck..
i will give free advice to anyone who asks though- so they have that to look forward to anyway
i have $, time, and my sanity. can’t have those when NPCs are using up your resources
^ Man, this hits home. I’ve totally cut off a few long time friends for repeatedly trying to abuse my generally good nature, and trying to take advantage of the fact I have my shit together (and they don’t). No family that has been told to fuck right off yet, though there’s at least one who could potentially be cast off in the future, based on some recent tension arising from them being difficult for no real reason.
Really, as time wears on I find I’ve less use and less tolerance for dealing with others. All the bullshit the world heaps on me (and my burden is light compared to the problems BCE is suffering) has worn me down and made me even more antisocial than I already was.
tfA-t, you are so right. I had a really good friend and coworker D who was the funniest, nicest guy and best friend anyone could have.
His only vice was that he had to always “help his boys”. His boys were in their early 30s when I met them and were both working and married. I saw on Facebook that the boys always had money to party on the weekends but when bills came due Dad had to pay their bills.
I worked with and was friends with D for 15 years and nothing changed. I begged and pleaded with him to make his boys stand on their own but he just wouldn’t. He’d go without but his boys both had nice trucks, a speed boat and a camper yet guess who was paying their bills ?
Finally 6 months ago, D who said he couldn’t retire at 67 because his “family needed him working” collapsed at work with a MASSIVE stroke. He lingered at the hospital for a week before he died.
At the hospital his boys were all upset and only partly because their father was dying. The youngest was saying “what am I gonna do… what am I gonna do” ? D died and it broke my heart because he was a good guy who let his kids take advantage of him and put him in an early grave. I heard through the grapevine that the boys are bumming their widowed Mom Dave’s wife for some of the life insurance money.
You HAVE to cut deadbeat kids off or their is NEVER an end to it.
Sorry to hear about your troubles. Regarding the wife, I will recommend that before you let the medical medieval scam called oncology stick poisons into your wife, please check out the Joe Tippens cancer protocol. There are many links to it, here’s one:
https://www.onedaymd.com/2024/04/fenbendazole-joe-tippens-protocol.html
Then scroll down to the following section of the post. This updated protocol includes ivermectin in combo with fenbendazole which improves the cancer killing impact.
New & Improved Joe Tippens Protocol – Dr William Makis
Please for the love of God move your shit while she’s away at the in-laws, and get a bank account at another bank. Or you’re gonna find yourself in a world of hurt. Do this BEFORE the confrontation. She’s enabling DC, and you need to protect yourself. This will cause your health to tank, just from the stress. You don’t want to be swatted at 0400 bc DC thought it would be fun.
In enabling this, she’s putting DC before your marriage.
Dang it man,
Sorry to hear this is happening to you. My 2 cents which is worth just that much is to,
1. Give the ultimatum to G, either cut ties with DC exactly right F’n now and stick to it or the relationship is OVER between you two. No way anyone that truely loves you would put you through what has already gone on much less what is most assuredly about to transpire.
2. Sell your stuff to Sapper for exactly 1 dollar with agreement that once the divorce ( which is coming whether you care to admit it or not) is final he sells back to you for same dollar.
There is no reason at all to stay in a toxic relationship and if G is going to have DC in her life, and by default in your life, it is time to leave.
JT
This seems like excellent advice, even if it’s pessimistic. A proper firewall against the worst case scenario. And if all works out, there’s nothing lost.
Life’s choices matter. For everyone. Such as who one takes up with.
Genetics matter. A LOT.
Agree with others here that it isnt your problem. Stop letting it be. If G wants to rejoin the circus, walk. Your ‘lub’ is no different to the trailer park variety if you choose Chaos in your life.
Get her some fent.. Seens to be all the rage with trash.
Get her some fent.. Seens to be all the rage with trash.
DB, that is
I am starting to think involuntary sterilization needs to make a comeback for Whites like DC and certain entire racial groups.